For UK weddings
Collect wedding RSVPs online
Guests reply with meal choices from your wedding website link, and you get per-course totals plus a caterer-ready CSV. There's no app and guests don't need accounts.
What's included
Free online wedding RSVPs
Guests reply in seconds via your wedding website link. Plus-ones and kids included. You see who's coming at a glance.
Meal choices with the RSVP
Set up courses with options. Guests pick starter, main and dessert when they RSVP. Per-course totals land on your dashboard, ready for the kitchen.
Open or guest-list RSVP
Open: anyone with the link can RSVP. Guest list: you pre-load names and only invited guests can reply. Pick what fits your wedding.
CSV export for caterers
One click, a spreadsheet of every confirmed guest and meal choice, plus a column flagging which guests need a dietary follow-up. Email it straight to your venue.
See who hasn't replied
Your dashboard shows every guest's reply status at a glance. Export the no-reply list to chase on WhatsApp or email.
No dietary details stored
Guests flag whether they have a dietary requirement and nothing more. You follow up directly to discuss specifics, which keeps sensitive religious or medical details off our database entirely.
How RSVPs work on Ode
01
Set up your RSVP
Choose open or guest-list RSVP. Add meal courses and options. Set a reply deadline.
02
Share your wedding link
Send the link via message, email or QR on a save-the-date. Guests RSVP in about ten seconds.
03
Export for your caterer
Per-course totals on your dashboard. CSV export with every guest, meal choice and a flag for who needs a dietary follow-up. Straight to the kitchen.
The RSVP dashboard
Every RSVP lands in your dashboard with the guest’s meal choice and a flag for anyone who needs a dietary follow-up. Per-course totals update live, and one click gives you a CSV export for the kitchen.
What to ask on a wedding RSVP
A good UK wedding RSVP asks the minimum it needs to and nothing more. Ode gives you these fields by default, and you can edit them or add your own.
Attending?
Yes / No. Keep it binary.
Name of each guest attending.
Including plus-ones if allowed.
Meal choice per guest.
By course. Default dietary option shown.
Dietary follow-up flag (yes / no).
A simple yes/no. Details discussed with you directly, never stored on the platform.
Optional song request.
Feeds your music requests playlist.
What not to ask: religion, health conditions, allergy details, or anything sensitive. Under UK GDPR that’s special category data you shouldn’t be collecting through a form. Ode asks guests to flag whether they have a dietary need, and you follow up with them directly, so the details stay off the platform entirely.
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