For UK weddings
Free online wedding RSVPs with meal choices, a dietary follow-up flag and a caterer-ready CSV. One link your guests will actually use — no app, no account, no spreadsheet to babysit.
What’s included
Guests reply in seconds via your wedding website link. Plus-ones and kids included. You see who's coming at a glance.
Set up courses with options. Guests pick starter, main and dessert when they RSVP. Per-course totals land on your dashboard, ready for the kitchen.
Open: anyone with the link can RSVP. Guest list: you pre-load names and only invited guests can reply. Pick what fits your wedding.
One click, a spreadsheet of every confirmed guest and meal choice, plus a column flagging which guests need a dietary follow-up. Email it straight to your venue.
Your dashboard shows every guest's reply status at a glance. Export the no-reply list to chase on WhatsApp or email.
Guests flag whether they have a dietary requirement — nothing more. You follow up directly to discuss specifics. Keeps sensitive religious or medical details off our database entirely.
How it works
01
Choose open or guest-list RSVP. Add meal courses and options. Set a reply deadline.
02
Send the link via message, email or QR on a save-the-date. Guests RSVP in about ten seconds.
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Per-course totals on your dashboard. CSV export with every guest, meal choice and a flag for who needs a dietary follow-up. Straight to the kitchen.
The RSVP dashboard


Every RSVP lands in your dashboard with meal choice and a flag for guests who need a dietary follow-up. Per-course totals update live. One click gives you a CSV export for the kitchen — no more manual tallying at 11pm.
UK wedding RSVP wording
A good UK wedding RSVP asks the minimum it needs to and nothing more. Ode gives you these fields by default — you can edit or add your own.
Attending?
Yes / No. Keep it binary.
Name of each guest attending.
Including plus-ones if allowed.
Meal choice per guest.
By course. Default dietary option shown.
Dietary follow-up flag (yes / no).
A simple yes/no. Details discussed with you directly, never stored on the platform.
Optional song request.
Feeds your music requests playlist.
What not to ask: religion, health conditions, allergy details, or anything sensitive. Under UK GDPR that’s special category data you shouldn’t be collecting through a form. Ode asks guests to flag whether they have a dietary need, and you follow up with them directly — details stay off the platform entirely.
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