For UK weddings

Collect wedding RSVPs, online.

Free online wedding RSVPs with meal choices, a dietary follow-up flag and a caterer-ready CSV. One link your guests will actually use — no app, no account, no spreadsheet to babysit.

What’s included

Everything you need, nothing you don’t.

Free online wedding RSVPs

Guests reply in seconds via your wedding website link. Plus-ones and kids included. You see who's coming at a glance.

Meal choices with the RSVP

Set up courses with options. Guests pick starter, main and dessert when they RSVP. Per-course totals land on your dashboard, ready for the kitchen.

Open or guest-list RSVP

Open: anyone with the link can RSVP. Guest list: you pre-load names and only invited guests can reply. Pick what fits your wedding.

CSV export for caterers

One click, a spreadsheet of every confirmed guest and meal choice, plus a column flagging which guests need a dietary follow-up. Email it straight to your venue.

See who hasn't replied

Your dashboard shows every guest's reply status at a glance. Export the no-reply list to chase on WhatsApp or email.

No dietary details stored

Guests flag whether they have a dietary requirement — nothing more. You follow up directly to discuss specifics. Keeps sensitive religious or medical details off our database entirely.

How it works

Three steps. One spreadsheet fewer.

01

Set up your RSVP

Choose open or guest-list RSVP. Add meal courses and options. Set a reply deadline.

02

Share your wedding link

Send the link via message, email or QR on a save-the-date. Guests RSVP in about ten seconds.

03

Export for your caterer

Per-course totals on your dashboard. CSV export with every guest, meal choice and a flag for who needs a dietary follow-up. Straight to the kitchen.

The RSVP dashboard

RSVPs and catering, sorted.

Wedding RSVP responses dashboard with meal choices
Wedding catering totals by course

Every RSVP lands in your dashboard with meal choice and a flag for guests who need a dietary follow-up. Per-course totals update live. One click gives you a CSV export for the kitchen — no more manual tallying at 11pm.

UK wedding RSVP wording

What to actually ask.

A good UK wedding RSVP asks the minimum it needs to and nothing more. Ode gives you these fields by default — you can edit or add your own.

  • Attending?

    Yes / No. Keep it binary.

  • Name of each guest attending.

    Including plus-ones if allowed.

  • Meal choice per guest.

    By course. Default dietary option shown.

  • Dietary follow-up flag (yes / no).

    A simple yes/no. Details discussed with you directly, never stored on the platform.

  • Optional song request.

    Feeds your music requests playlist.

What not to ask: religion, health conditions, allergy details, or anything sensitive. Under UK GDPR that’s special category data you shouldn’t be collecting through a form. Ode asks guests to flag whether they have a dietary need, and you follow up with them directly — details stay off the platform entirely.

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